“It seems you have a low EQ”
Almost 4 years ago I had a job interview with an experient money manager and during our talk he concluded that considering the places where I had worked before and my professional path, that I had a low EQ. That day he politely said that to my face and I was a bit unnerved on the spot as humans typically are when being criticized.
That led me to a lot of reflection and now I must say it was superb.
When you shift your mindset from blaming others to taking responsibility for what you do… You basically get better.
We know when we do things rightly more than we acknowledge when we do things poorly.
My suggestion today is to focus on criticism and not on praise. And on improving your EQ. EQ trumps IQ 90% of the time.